Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Friday, December 10, 2010

Christmas List 2010

Christmas draws nigh and I'm sure many people are already finished with their Christmas Shopping. I'm one of those people that tends to put it off until December every year, and usually the back-half of the month.

 
This year, I've done more shopping online than in previous years. I scored a free Prime membership to Amazon, so shipping is free on just about anything I buy that Amazon ships (though not from their resellers). I'm just about finished buying for my wife - I could stop now and call it good, but I might try to pick up one or two more things for her - though I don't know what those would be just yet.

 
She and I are close to being finished shopping for our kids. We're completely finished shopping for our youngest daughter - deals for her gifts just seemed to fall into our laps this year and when we stopped to take stock of what we'd bought, we were surprised by how much stuff we had already bought... now we have to catch up on the other two kids. We do have some stuff for each of them, but we're not finished.

 
We also need to buy stuff for her parents, and maybe something else for my parents. We bought a little something for my parents, but I think I'd like to add to it.

 
As for myself, I had a mix of fun stuff and home-improvement stuff on my own gift list, in addition to all the cool stuff on my Amazon wish list. Some of the stuff on my list includes:

 
  • A kindle or other ebook reader.
  • Two ceiling fans for my house (to replace aging ones).
  • Two storm doors for my house (to replace aging or missing ones).
  • A tool chest of drawers and cabinets.
  • Geeky T-shirts, including anything Firefly/Serenity.
  • USB to HDMI adapter
  • Wireless laptop mouse
  • Saw horses.
  • A 13’ extension ladder (or thereabouts)

Those are some of things I've asked for this year. And hey, if you want to help me out... ;-)

 
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

 


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Friday, February 26, 2010

What We've Been Doing

Been quite awhile since we've blogged here. Our Facebook and Twitter statuses tell the story. To sum up: we've been busy, and micro-status updates are easier and more convenient to post than a lengthy, friendly blog update.

Back in September of 2009, Rubi got a job she'd been wanting for quite some time. She's now a writer for Massively - blogging about massive multi-player online games (MMORPGs). With the kids' schedules, the holidays, my crazy work schedule the last few months of last year, and the kids' winter break, it took Rubi quite awhile to settle in to a routine with her new job. She did, though, and is doing an amazing job - and even got her own column writing about Guild Wars, one of her favorite games.

Along with Rubi's new job comes new opportunities - we'll be traveling to Boston at the end of March to attend PAX East, a convention for computer games, board games, role playing games, dice games, card games, console games - basically any and all kinds of games are represented at this convention. Rubi will be working practically all of the time, interviewing people from the different PC gaming companies about their games. I'll be attending as her gopher, and also to have some fun of my own while she's busy (and to go to all the cool parties with her). We're also planning on attending the West Coast version of this convention over the Labor Day weekend.

At the start of the new year, I moved from my normal second shift hours of 3pm-11pm to a much more family friendly dayshift hours of 7am-3pm - which also has taken the family some getting used to.

Then mid-February (about 10 days ago), I slipped on the ice on the walk in front of our house, apparently did a mid-air flip to avoid my head or back hitting the concrete steps and concrete molding near me, heard a loud pop from my right ankle and was in quite some pain as I writhed on the snowy ground. Rubi called my coworkers (lucky me, "working at" 9-1-1) to ask for an ambulance for me. I griped at her during the call and made her hang up. I did not want to be the guy who took an ambulance to the ER for a sprained ankle (I had sprained the same ankle in high school, resulting in the need for crutches and a then cane and then a severe limp for several weeks). Shortly after I got her to hang up, I asked her to call back and go ahead and get me an ambulance. I figured I'd get seen, in and out of the ER, much quicker if I came in by ambulance than if I drove in and went through standard triage. While she was on the phone with the ambulance, they asked her their standard questions, including "Is he conscious and breathing?" to which she replied, "Oh yeah, he's awake and crabby!".

I did get right in to a room at the ER, saw a nurse (or three) pretty quickly and got to X-ray. Shortly after getting my ankle x-rayed three times, one nurse (who recognized me from high school) came in and told me I had broken my ankle and would probable need surgery to get screws put in, but she wasn't sure about the surgery part and the doctor would have to confirm that.

She came back a little later and confirmed I would need surgery and told me to go see the orthopedic surgeon the next day and would probably have surgery the day after that.

Sure enough, after seeing the orthodoc, he scheduled me for surgery the next day. I broke my ankle Monday afternoon, saw the doc Tuesday morning, and was in the hospital for surgery at 8am Wednesday. Getting into the hospital and prepped for the surgery took probably a couple three hours, the surgery was scheduled for 10:30am. The surgery lasted maybe 10-15 minutes - had 2 5mm screws put in to reattach my inner ankle bone pieces together - and I was in recovery until, I think, almost 5pm. Lortabs and an empty stomach didn't agree with me; I got a bit queasy. They put something in my IV (not phenergan, which is what I expected) to stop the nausea and it worked. By the time it had taken affect, I was ready to get up and walk out there I had been there so long. But they eventually wheeled me out in a wheelchair to my darling bride waiting with the van at the curb.

I've got a follow up appointment next week, where I hope to get this over-large, overly heavy splint off my leg and something smaller and more compact put on in place of it that's easier to dress around and easier to wrap so I can take a shower more easily. I asked the doc about the con in Boston, and he said I should be using a cane by then.

I ended up taking 3 sick days off of work, and a personal day to try and get used to having a broken ankle and dealing with it. I actually had 6 days off before I had to be back (those 4 days, plus two normal days for my weekend). My first day back, I only worked half a day - went home early. Worked the next day, when my boss brought me a nice wooden can wrapped in gold-colored ribbon and bow as a gift (the cane had been hers). Took another sick day to deal with continuing pain in my ankle, lack of sleep, and an upset stomach from taking pain killers on an empty stomach (when will I learn?!). And I'm back today working 12 hours overnight from 7pm to 7am.

In additon to my and Rubi's craziness, Alexander has had wrestling practice twice a week and/or wrestling matches, and Lizzy has art club and speech team; all after school, keeping us jumping all afternoon/evening some days picking up kids from school at different times, because none of those events ever end at the same time as each other.

And I think Lizzy has given up blogging here in favor of blogging at her Stuck in 7th Grade blog.

I've been writing book reviews sporadically over on my book review blog, and as mentioned earlier, Rubi and I have been facebooking and tweeting more often, and she and I started our own podcast. We have two episodes posted and hope to find the time to record more soon.

That's what the Bayer Family has been up to.


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Thursday, November 26, 2009

The Obligatory Thankfulness Post

I am thankful for so much; God has blessed me in so many ways I could write a book of thankfullness. Instead, I'll summarize some of the high points.

I'm thankful for my bride Rubi, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish for all eternity.

I'm thankful for our kids Lizzy, Alex, and Catherine: three very different but equally loveable, smart, and just plain cool.

I'm thankful for our families, hers and mine. We both have great parents and extended families and they are a true blessing to us both.

I'm thankful for my job, stressful as it is. At least I'm employed and have some semblance of job security - not everyone can say that.

I could go on and on, but I'll end with this quote that one of my bosses emailed the staff yesterday:

"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow."
-Melody Beattie
Enjoy the tryptophan coma!


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Sunday, October 05, 2008

Communication

Here's a fun quote:

I know that you believe that you understood what you think I said, but I am not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.

-  attributed to Robert McCloskey
What's fun about it, is Rubi and I recently heard a speaker use that quote to describe communications between wives and husbands (as in, the above quote is the way a woman feels about the way her husband hears her).

It's definitely true! We men often hear exactly what our wives say, but there's a difference between understanding the words, and understanding our wives. 

Rubi says: "We should clean out the van soon."
Kev hears: "We should clean out the van soon."
Rubi means: "You should go clean out the van now."
(This is a purely hypothetical situation, mind you.)

Rubi says: "The grass is getting tall."
Kev hears: "It's time to teach Elizabeth how to mow the lawn."
Rubi means: "Go mow the lawn."

Rubi says: "I'm getting hungry."
Kev hears: "Let's order pizza."
Rubi means: "Let's order pizza."

Oh...

Maybe sometimes we do understand.


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Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Seems like that's the truth sometimes!

Sometimes this comic-strip hits the family-life nail dead on the head:

Actually, Rubi has been doing a bang-up job with getting the kids to stay on-top of cleaning up after themselves. She has a system where we all get together and work on specific rooms. And in-between, she makes sure the kids know not to leave a trail of toys and whatnot behind them as they go from room to room to play.
I'm just glad she hasn't set her eyes on cleaning off my dresser.
Yet.


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Friday, April 27, 2007

ahhhhh.....

Getting away from work is nice.

Taking a couple days off from work this weekend so Rubi and I can spend a couple of days in Indianapolis at the Indianapolis Film Festival. She'll also get to hit a couple of scrapbooking stores.

Rubi's parents (they rock!) are taking all three kids for the weekend so it's just Rubi and I going. We're calling an early anniversary celebration.

Our 13th anniversary is next month. The same weekend as Elizabeth's birthday and Mother's Day. We're spreading the celebrating out. Our celebration is this weekend. Mom's Day is on Mom's day, and we're having Elizabeth's birthday party the following weekend.

We will miss most of the celebrating of Guild Wars 2nd birthday on-line this week. Lots of cool in-game stuff this weekend. It is sad that we're kinda disappointed that we're going to miss that.


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Friday, April 06, 2007

THINKs April 6 2007

Another installment of the various and sundry items I find of interest around the digital world.

First off, here's an article about an easier way to post images in webposts.

This is just funny as all get out.


Here is a short list of ways to not be late.

For fans of Heroes, a report from a panel with the cast and crew.

I want one of these. Especially if it transforms into a car. Especially a vegetable oil powered car.

How cool is this?

On a side note. Rubi is doing way better in Guild Wars than I am. She's level 19 already and much further along in the game. My two characters are still trudging away at level 13 and are barely into the game. It'd be much more fun if we had another computer and another copy of Guild Wars so we could play together.

THINKS: Kev's term combining the words Things and Links: an assortment of images, links, games, trivia, memes, minutia, and whatnot found while browsing and mentioned collectively in a blog or message-board posts.


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Wednesday, March 07, 2007

THINKS for March 7, 2007

Blogger ate my last two mail-to-blogger posts - or rather, it stuck them in Drafts instead of automatically publishing them. So everything popped up today even though they are dated when I actually wrote them.
Blogger says they have that fixed, but we'll see. Maybe it's a DST issue occurring early.

I've been playing Guild Wars occasionally since I got it a couple of weeks ago - maybe eight hours total playing time. I rarely play for more than an hour or so. I haven't gotten into the "real" part of the game yet - I'm sticking in the "learning environment" part gaining experience and skills and just getting to know the game. I like it, it's fun, but it's a time-waster - as in: I could probably be doing more productive things instead of playing a computer game; like napping. I've gotta try to figure out how to play it while I walk on the treadmill Rubi and I bought yesterday.

Also, just to let you know: I think I have a terrible disease called Lethonomia. Really. I'm pretty sure there's no cure for it. Except for maybe flash cards with pictures.

As for the recent news from Marvel Comics - holy Cap! I can't believe they did that! Is Joss Whedon writing for them?

If you are, like me, quite fond of free stuff, or in other words, Free Stuff Rocks!, you might want to check out The Free Geek.

There's been much hype recently over the "discovery" of the "tomb of Jesus". Here's a good rebuttal to that.

You haven't bought a copy of Serenity on DVD yet? Are you nuts?! Well, wait a bit longer and buy the Special Edition! (or buy four copies and share them around.)

Sticking with the `verse, check out this Firefly video:



More Whedon: the Buffy Season 8 comic premieres later this month (next week I think). Here's a refresher of who's who if you need it.

Here's some disappointing news. Why are they actually going forward with that project?

I could have fun with this all day.

Have you wondered what would happen if an astronaut went crazy (while in space that is)? NASA has an SOP.

I guess that's it for now. Back to work.


THINKS: Kev's term combining the words Things and Links: an assortment of images, links, games, trivia, memes, minutia, and whatnot found while browsing and mentioned collectively in a blog or message-board posts.


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Thursday, February 01, 2007

THINKS? Are they back?

It's been awhile since I collected some of my random 'net wanderings into a THINKS post.

THINKS: Kev's term combining the words Things and Links: an assortment of images, links, games, trivia, memes, minutia, and whatnot found while browsing and mentioned collectively in a blog or message-board posts.

I just wanted to use the words minutia and whatnot. Those are fun words.

As you know - I like to read. A lot. I also occasionally post reviews of books here. I've also started cross-posting my reviews to Gather. Gather is kind of like a reincarnation of ThemeStream. But I think it's executed much better. At Gather, I created two groups: one for Christian Fiction Book reviews and discussion, and another for reviews of podcasts. I actually haven't gotten around to posting anything in the podcast reviews group - but I will soon.
Really.
There are many other book review groups on Gather. I joined one of the many: The Book Review. The creator of the group was kind enough to publish a "newsletter" listing all of the book reviews posted during January!
Handy to have them all listed in one place!

Another "web place" I found recently through a Lockergnome newsletter is Ziki . Ziki is website that wants to be the main internet presence for all of your various and widespread internet content. Join up, create your profile, add your feeds, and you've got a website that has your information and links to all of your various content: from your blogs, your Flickr accounts, etc. Anything you publish to that has a feed, you can list the feed and it will present it on your myZiki. Kind of neat. Also, if you're one of the first 10,000 people to join up - they'll give you a year free of search engine presence advertising (I think it's called). That's where if someone searches on your name (or whatever you signed up with Ziki for), they'll see a paid link at the top of that search that goes to your myZiki page.

I recently discovered a couple of interesting looking music remix websites: JamGlue and great essay that's a few years old (can't remember who's blog I found it linked from though). This essay examines Star Wars Episode 4 in a new light based on the events of the prequel trilogy. I have to say, if the Expanded Universe went this way, it would have been much more interesting (and made much more sense).

My sister-in-law sent me a funny email with a new Answering Machine message:
"GOOD MORNING, WELCOME TO THE UNITED STATES"
"Press "1" if you speak English."
"Press '2' to disconnect until you can.


That's just great - everyone should have that on their answering machine.

I can't guarantee I'll ever post my THINKS regularly. Usually I'm busy visiting recommendations from other websites.

To finish up this THINKS, here is a massive meme asking about my life Ten Years Ago, Five Years Ago, and Now:

Ten Years Ago:
1.) How old were you?
23 (Sheesh)


2.) Where did you go to school?
University of Southern Indiana


3.) Where did you work?
I think a better question would be where didn't I work. I had several part time jobs.
I worked at WSWI (the college radio station), I also did some odd-job work for the University like driving tour groups around in a van. I also worked at several other area radio and TV stations around that time.


4.) Where did you live?
With my darling wife, in a nice 2 bedroom duplex with a crappy landlord.


5.) Where did you hang out?
At WSWI.


6.) Did you wear glasses?
Yep.


7.) Who was your best friend?
Rubi.


8.) How many tattoos did you have?
No tats.


9.) How many piercings did you have?:
No piercings.


10.) What car did you drive?:
A Cavalier station wagon that I still miss and regret getting rid of, even though I had to replace the entire exhaust system on it every year.


11.) Had you been to a real party yet?
Yes. And I had absolutely no fun at all. I'm not a drinker, nor a smoker. So I pretty much sat on the couch and let the pretty girls fall asleep on my shoulder. Wait, it wasn't all bad.


12.) Had your heart broken?
No.


13.) Single/Taken/Married/Divorced/Bitter:
Married. Happily married. So very happily married. Had been married for almost three years.


Five Years Ago.
1.)How old were you?
28.


2.) Where did you go to school?
I had finally graduated by that point.


3.) Where did you work?
Same place I do now.


4.) Where did you live?
Same place I do now.


5.) Where did you hang out?
On my sofa napping.


6.) Did you wear glasses?
Yep.


7.) Who was your best friend?
Rubi.


8.) Who was your crush
Natalie Portman.


9.) How many tattoos did you have?
Still no tats. Won't ever have tats.


10.) How many piercings did you have?
No piercings then, none now. None in the future.


11) What car did you drive?
99 Dodge Stratus (that I still drive).


12.) Had you had your heart broken?
Nope.


13.) Single/Taken/Married/Divorced/Bitter:
Happily married.


Now (February 2007)
1.) How old are you?
33


2.) Where do you work?
Same place I did five years ago.


3.) Where do you live?
Same house I did five years ago.


4.) Do you wear glasses?
Yep.


5.) Who is/are your best friend(s)?
Rubi.


6.) Do you talk to your old friends?
Very rarely.


7.) How many piercings do you have?
Again with the piercings! I had my brain pierced - that's why I can only fill out memes now.


8.) How many tattoos?
No body art for me. Thanks.


9.) What kind of car do you have?
Just bought a 2007 Grand Caravan.


10.) Has your heart been broken?
Nope.


11.) Single/Taken/Married/Divorced/Bitter?
Happily Married!


Feel free to do that meme on your own blog!


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Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Movie Meme 2007

SFSignal posted the following movie meme - so I'll do it too.

The list of 2007 genre movies follows. It's sorted alphabetically since release dates change and are geo-centric. Titles are pulled from Dark Horizons, SciFi Movie Page and IMDB.

Highlight the genre movies you are anticipating, as follows:
- BOLD for movies you want to see in the theater
- ITALICS for movies that you'll wait for the DVD release
-Red font for movies I care nothing about seeing.
-Green font for movies I've never heard of.

28 Weeks Later
Alien vs. Predator AVP2
Arthur and the Invisibles
Fanboys
Fantastic Four: Rise of the Silver Surfer
Ghost Rider
Halloween
Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix
His Dark Materials: The Golden Compass
I Am Legend
Meet the Robinsons
Pirates of the Caribbean: At Worlds End
Resident Evil 3: Extinction
Shrek the Third
Spider-Man 3
Stardust
Sunshine
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles
The Astronaut Farmer
The Dark Is Rising
The Invasion
The Martian Child
The Mist
Transformers
Underdog

I haven't even heard of some of those movies!
I will definitely see Transformers at the theater - maybe opening night if I can swing it. Hopefully they'll do a midnight a showing - that'd make it easier.
Rubi and I have made it a point to see that last two Spiderman movies in the theater - so we'll probably make a date of that.
I haven't seen FF1 yet, but the trailer for Rise of the Silver Surfer rocks! So I'll be seeing that at some point - most likely on DVD.
I haven't heard much about Underdog, so I don't know if it will be like the Rocky & Bullwinkle and the Scooby Doo movies, or if they'll take it a little more serious. Either way - that's a definite not in the theater.
TMNT: I'm torn, I'd like to see it on the big screen, but I rarely get to see movies in the theater so I don't want to "waste" my movie going time when I might use that for a date with Rubi. After I see the reviews, maybe I'll be able to take my kids to see it (at least Alexander), but I think probably he's not old enough for it yet.
AvP2 I will definitely wait for DVD. In fact, I'll probably read the novelization first - because I don't like gore, and if the book mentions too much gore, I'll probably just skim through the movie for the good parts.
I've heard good things about Fanboys, but again: I only get to go to the theater a limited number of times each year, usually on dates with my darling wife - so I have to save those up for the movies that really count. TF is the exception to that, unless Rubi wants to geek out with me.

I'm just waiting til Elizabeth is a little older. We'll make her babysit so Rubi and I can go out on dates more often!


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